MUMBAI — She may have ruled many hearts and won several awards, but Bollywood actress Kangana Ranaut was an unwanted girl child who grew up constantly being reminded of her ‘unwanted existence.’
On the occasion of International Women’s Day, the 28-year-old actress demanded that the portrayal of women as “selfless” Indian ladies who only care about the happiness of the men in their lives be stopped, as it is regressive.
“My parents had a child before Rangoli, who died within 10 days of his birth. He was called Hero. My parents couldn’t emerge from the loss of that baby boy. But then Rangoli happened, and she was taken care of; there was a huge celebration,” the “Katti Batti” actress told reporters.
Kangana Ranaut, who has an elder sister, Rangoli Ranaut, and a younger brother, Akshat Ranaut, said that her parents could not come to terms with the fact that they had another girl child.
“But when I was born, my parents, my mother especially, couldn’t come to terms with that fact that they had another baby girl. I know these stories in detail, because every time a guest visited or there was a gathering, they repeated this story in front of me about how I was the unwanted child,” Kangana Ranaut added.
The actress, who has acted in women-oriented films like “Queen” and “Tanu Weds Manu Returns,” said it was very hard to be constantly reminded that she was someone who was not “meant” to be in this world.
“It’s very hard to live in an environment where you’re reminded and constantly told that your existence just happens to be here... that you are not meant to be here,” she said.
Kangana Ranaut said she never accepted the stereotype that boys are more important than girls, which often led to a certain “discomfort” while growing up.
“From my side, there was no acceptance to this fact that I am any less than anyone around me. So there was a certain discomfort that I felt growing up that I am not seen as I want to be seen,” she said.
“The glorification of sisters and mothers as the selfless Indian women who will do ‘agni pariksha’ and the one who sees her own betterment only in the betterment of their husbands and fathers, that has to stop. It’s very regressive,” Kangana Ranaut added.
Quoting a line from contemporary actress Kalki Koechlin, she said that people should not expect a “holier than thou” attitude from women, who are just as equal to men in society.
“I read Kalki’s quote that we women feel as human as a man, we are no different, we have the same flesh and blood, and our challenges are just the same.
“So to expect this larger-than-life, holier-than-thou sort of existence from us is not possible. We as much want to make our own mistakes as a man does,” Kangana Ranaut said at the launch of the new cover of Femina magazine.